I went to the grocery store today, which was too much for an already busy day, but we were out of things like food for instance. It was Charis’s “naptime†(naptime is in quotes because it is her naptime but she does not know it yet) but I decided that I would just haul the baby carrier in and see if she would sleep anyway. I usually carry her in the Baby Bjorn strapped to me since I can use the cart more that way. Wal-mart just got new carts that do not work with our baby carrier so you have to put the carrier in the big basket part where the groceries should go. Now just a word about this baby carrier…I never haul it in anywhere because it is just way too heavy with Charis in it now. I think that she is right at exceeding the limit for it anyway. Back to the story…grocery shopping is not the problem, I can make things fit in the cart around the carrier. Now the problem comes when you check out and they put all the items into bags. Before we even get there though I had done all my shopping and gotten to the checkout and started putting all the stuff on the conveyer belt when I realized that I did not get the cereal that Brad had asked for. Gee Gollies! There was a very nice older woman behind me and she said that if I left my cart she would save my space. Well, that was nice and all but my cart had precious cargo in it like say my child and I did not know this woman so I decided to load all the groceries back in my cart to go get the cereal because I wanted to keep my cargo with me. J We got the cereal and we were back in line behind the older woman who had originally wanted to watch my precious cargo for me. It should have been a sign right then that the woman was still in line a sign that should of said to me hey this line is moving slower than molasses but no it did not register. Finally, I make it to the point where it is my turn. Of course it is a new cashier and I am totally supportive and encouraging to her but then she tells me that my card is invalid and I am thinking there is no way in this world that I am going through this shopping trip again. She points to the sign that mentions the invalidness and I am just thinking there is no way in the world. I read the sign and it says that she pushed an invalid key. I explained to her what the sign said and she thought that I was off my rocker. She asked me to keep sliding my card thru the machine and eventually we get everything paid for. I am sure that I paid for everything about four times but we shall see on the next statement from the bank.
You would think at this point I would be home free but no…I had to make it to the car with all those bags that all my groceries were now in. I crammed a few bags under the cart and around the baby carrier and then I was carrying the rest. Well, I am on my way out of the store when the milk decides to fall out from under the cart. I hear a lady from behind me saying your milk your milk hoping that someone else will pick it up so she will not have to. This very very nice man picks it up for me and I just decide to carry it as well. Now I am pushing the cart with one hand with bags draped on my arm and carrying the milk in the other hand. The same lady (you know the milk lady) is still following me and she just keeps saying, “bless your heart you even have a baby in thereâ€. I am thinking to myself stop blessing me and please help me. She walked on with her empty hands and half empty cart to her car. I proceeded to my car to get the groceries and the precious cargo into the car. This trip made me realize how important it is to help people out or at least offer when they look like they have their hands full because as I experienced sometimes they really do have their hands full! FYI, I did finally make it home and get all the groceries put away. Whew!